Relationship

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💖What Healthy Love Really Looks Like 
    
A letter to the one who is tired of getting hurt 

There comes a moment in your life  when chaos no longer excites you . when begging for love  , proving your  worth , and chasing someone who keeps running finally exausts your soul ,

what does love feel like ... when it does not hurt ?

lets talk about that love .

🌿Healthy Love Feels like Safety

Not butterflies in your stomach . 
Not the anxiety of wondering if they will leave .
Not the constant overthinking , did I say too much , Am I enough ? will they come back .

Healthy love feels like exhaling...

Like coming home to yourself , not loosing your self in some else .
Its the warmth of knowing you don't have to perfome , impress , or pretend .
you can just be --- soft , messy , emotional , whole -- and still be loved .

🕊 Halthy love does not hurt you....

It does not raise its voice to silence you . It does not punish you with  distance . It does not make you feel like  you are too much for needing love , attention , or reassurance .

Healthy love hold your hand , even when you are not at your best..

It walks beside you through the stroms , not just on the sunny days .

💬Healthy love is honest -- Even when it's Hard...

 In a world full of  mixed signals , mind games, and ghosting....
Healthy love speaks clearly.

. I am here .
. I care about how you feel.
. Let's work through this together.

you never have to beg to be heard .

⛨ Healthy Love Honors Your Boundaries
 
you don't have to explain why you need space .
you don't feel guilty for saying no . 
you are not affraid to be honest about what hurts , what heals , what you need . 

Because healthy love doesn't want to own you-- it wants to walk with you..
it respects your rhythm , your healing , your process.

🌸Healthy Love Feels Peaceful , Not Perfect 
  
It's not about having a flawless relationship--- it's about having a safe one . 

. A love where repair matters more than pride .

. A love that isn't threatend by your growth .

. A love that says , we may not be perfect , but we are real , we are present . we are in this .

that's what healthy love feels like ; SOFT , STEADY , SACRED.

🧡A Gentle Reminder

if love has only ever felt like cofusion , fear , or survival....

Then healthy love may feel unfamiliar at first . 

it may even feel boring --- untill you realize that peace was what your heart was craving all along .

Real love doesn't keep you up at night . 
it lets you rest .

💥You Deserve This Kind of Love

The kind that doesn't make you question your worth .

The kind that sees your scars and doesn't filinch . 

The kind that says ; you don't have to be perfect --- just be you .

you were never too much .

you were just loving people who didn't know how to hold something so honest , so deep , so real .

But now , you are healing . you are awakening. 

you are learning to choose love , that doesn't destroy you .... but rebuilds you

And that , dear soul , is the most beautiful beginning .

🦋Dare To Believe
  
That love can be soft .

That you are not hard to love .

That your heart is worthy of everything gentle , sacred , and true.

With love & grace
Dimple Mehra
Life Coach | Dare to believe






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