Healing the Inner Child : Unlocking the Root of Emotional Triggers
Have you ever reacted strongly to something small and wondered , Why did that affect me so much ?
Chances are , it was not just the presnet moment -- it was a wound from your past .
The wounded part of you is often your inner child , asking for love , Safety , and Healing .
🌱What is the Inner Child ?
your inner child is the emotional memory of your younger self . It holds your early experiences , both joyful and painful . when your inner child is nurtured , you feel secure and cofident . But when it is wounded , those old hurts can show up in your adult life as :
. fear of Abandonment
. People -pleasing
. Emotional outbursts
. Trust issues
. Feeling Not enough
🔥Triggers are clues , not the enemy
Emotional triggers are not flaws ; they are messages . They point to places inside you that still need healing , instead of reacting with shame or guilt , what if you responded with curiosity and compassion ?
ask your self ;
what part of me is hurting right know ?
often , the ans lies in your childhood.
💛Signsyour inner child May be wounded
. you often seek external validation
. your fear being rejected or abandoned
. you struggle to set boundareis
. you feel resposible for others emotions
. you find it hard to trust or feel safe in relationship
🛠 How to strat hilling your inner child
1. Reconnect through jouranaling
. write a letter to your youngerself .
. Ask ; what did you need to hear but never did ?
2. Daily Affirmations
speak kindly to yourself . Try;
you are safe now .
you are loved just as you are .
I am here for you .
3. Inner child visualization
close your eyes , imagine your 5 - or 6 - years - old self . Hug them . Tell them what they longed to hear.
4. Enagage in jouyful play
Do things your child self loved------
colouring , dancing , singing , or building something silly ,
it builds trust between your adult and inner child .
5. Practice self - compassion
when you feel triggered say ;
It makes sense thst i feel this way .
I am learning to heal ,
🌈Why it Matters
Healing your inner child is not about blaming anyone , it is about reclaming your power , rewriting your story , and choosing peace.
It helps you become a better parent , partner , friend -and most importatly , a better friend to yourself .
With love & grace,
Dimple Mehra
Life Coach | Dare to believe
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